OCD Doesn't Define Who You Are

Obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD) is a mental health condition characterized by unwanted intrusive thoughts. People with OCD perform repetitive behaviors to reduce the anxiety and distress caused by these thoughts. These behaviors are called compulsions. Compulsions don’t always make sense to others. They can feel overwhelming to live with, and you’ll sometimes find yourself in routines that no one else understands.

Living with OCD can feel like being stuck in an endless loop. A distressing thought occurs, then you perform a ritualistic behavior to get rid of the thought. For example, you’re lying in bed ready to go to sleep, when you begin to worry about whether or not you locked the back door. You worry that someone might break into the house. So, you go downstairs to check the door. This happens over and over again.

This can cause you to feel exhausted. You also feel isolated because this isn’t something you feel like you can talk to others about. In your mind, they won’t understand. To others, this might look like a habit or behavior that you are in control of. This misunderstanding can make it hard to reach out for help.

The truth is that OCD isn’t a “quirk” or a personality trait. It’s a neurological condition, and it responds well to the right kind of support. Therapy approaches like Exposure and Response Prevention (ERP) can help you confront thoughts that trigger compulsions. Medications can also be very helpful for OCD.

Most importantly, OCD doesn’t define you. It’s just a part of your story. People with OCD can live full, happy lives with treatment and support.

Why It Can Be Hard To Reach Out

It can be hard to reach out if you have OCD because of fears that others won’t get it or will judge you —  especially if you have thoughts consistent with harm OCD. You may even worry about being committed to a mental health hospital against your will. You may worry that these thoughts say you are a bad person. 

Maybe you’ve been carrying it on your own for so long that asking for help feels like giving up. You feel like you should be able to “fix” this on your own. Asking for help for this seems silly, in your mind. 



A Professional Approach to OCD Care

Mimi Walke, LPC, NCC

Licensed Professional Counselor

Just remember, you’re doing something that is beneficial for you and those around you, and that is a big step in the direction of self-care and wellness. You deserve to be heard, validated, and to have a place where it’s safe to express how you feel. So, high-five for making it this far!

Do you ever feel misunderstood, alone, or overwhelmed by your daily responsibilities? Therapy can be a great way to learn to build coping skills for your anxiety, depression, OCD, or any other mental health challenges you may be facing. Therapy can also help you set goals, work on boundary setting, communication skills, and process past events that have left lasting marks in current relationships.

It’s important that I provide a safe space for clients to express their feelings, needs, and wants and that I can offer feedback that challenges them to grow and heal!

How Therapy Can Help

The best therapy for OCD is one that is individualized. At Deep Centered Mental Health, treatment is tailored to your needs. The kind of help you get depends on what you need. Some people respond better to cognitive-based approaches, while others make more progress with approaches that utilize mindfulness.

Your therapist will take the time to understand your needs and your goals. This results in care that is personal and supportive. You’ll feel seen and heard.

For some people, a combination of medication and therapy is best. Medication can help reduce the frequency and intensity of intrusive thoughts. This can make symptoms less severe and treatment feel more manageable.

During therapy, you’ll be supported by your therapist every step of the way. Together, with your therapist, you will build a treatment plan that works for you. Over time, therapy will help loosen the grip that intrusive thoughts and compulsions have on your life.

Therapeutic Approaches

Because OCD doesn’t look the same for everyone, your treatment shouldn’t either. That’s why our therapists are trained in multiple approaches for OCD. Here are just a few of them:

Exposure and Response Prevention (ERP): This is the “Gold Star” therapy for OCD. Research has shown that it’s very effective. It teaches you to slowly face fears while resisting the urge to act on compulsions.
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT): CBT is another evidence-based approach that is very effective for OCD. You’ll learn strategies to recognize and change intrusive thought patterns that trigger compulsive behaviors.
Mindfulness-Based Therapy: Easy exercises that help you notice your thoughts, feelings, and body sensations. You’ll learn to observe your thoughts without acting on them. You will also learn strategies to help you relax your body.
Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT): This type of therapy helps you recognize and let go of unwanted thoughts. Your therapist will teach you how to let intrusive thoughts pass without getting stuck on them.
Dialectical behavioral therapy (DBT): Originally designed for intense emotions, can also benefit those with OCD. It helps you tolerate intrusive thoughts, regulate emotions, and use mindfulness to find calm and balance.

Why Choose Deep Centered Mental Health

We realize that it takes courage to even visit our site and read a page like this. That’s a big step to take. Many people with OCD take months — or sometimes even years — to reach out for help.

Our clinicians have years of experience treating OCD and approach this work with respect for you and your process. They have been recognized by respected outlets like CNN. While we’re proud of this recognition, we’re even more proud of the impact we’ve had in helping clients build lives that feel calmer and more meaningful.

During therapy, we focus on listening to your journey and where you are at. Whether you are struggling with an overwhelming fear of germs or unwanted thoughts that you might have harmed another human being, we will listen with compassion and care.

You set the goals. We help you move toward them. Instead of forcing you to sit through group therapy or skills training when it’s not right for you, we work with you to build strategies that feel doable and effective.

At Deep Centered Mental Health, our goal is simple: to help you reclaim peace and break free from the compulsions that have taken over. We offer consistent support and practical tools to help you do just that.

We are ready when you are

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Journeys to Healing

Real experiences shared by patients who turned therapy into transformation.

Kaitlyn is absolutely WONDERFUL. In the 3 months I have been working with her I have had tremendous personal and professional growth. I could not be more happy.

The counseling I received has made an incredible difference in my life. I will forever be grateful. I highly recommend this counseling group. Megan specifically has been wonderful.

As a 1st time therapy patient, I cannot recommend them enough. I've been given insight, book recommendations, and challenging questions to examine what I hope to work on in therapy.

Understanding the Process

Learn more about what to expect as you take the next step in your journey.

What Is OCD?

Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) is a condition where unwanted thoughts (obsessions) lead to repetitive behaviors or mental acts (compulsions). These patterns can cause distress and take up a lot of time each day.

How Can Therapy Help With OCD?

Therapy helps you understand the thoughts and behaviors that keep OCD going. Treatment Modalities such as Exposure and Response Prevention (ERP) and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) can help you break these cycles and regain a sense of control.

Will I Have To Face My Fears Right Away?

No. A therapist will go at a pace that feels manageable for you. We will never push you.

How Long Does It Take To Feel Better?

Everyone’s journey is different. Some people notice improvements within a few weeks of therapy, while for others it may take longer. Consistency and support make a big difference.

Can Medication Help With OCD?

Yes. Many people benefit from combining therapy with medication prescribed by a psychiatrist to reduce obsessive thoughts and anxiety.

Is It Possible For OCD To Completely Go Away?

OCD can improve significantly with consistent treatment. There are people who experience full remission and many others who learn to manage their symptoms and live a more well-balanced life.

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