Some experiences and memories are so painful that your brain doesn’t quite know how to properly file them. These experiences or memories are unprocessed or blocked. As a result, they get stuck and replay in your body and brain over and over again.
Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) is a structured psychotherapy approach that helps your brain work through and properly file these difficult or distressing memories.
During EMDR, your therapist will guide you through sets of eye movements, sounds, or taps. This allows your brain to enter a “learning state,” similar to what happens during REM sleep. In this state, your brain can safely revisit traumatic memories, sort through what happened, and file them properly where they belong — in the past.
EMDR helps your brain heal. It does not erase the memory. Rather than being immediate and overwhelming, the memory moves to the past. This allows you to focus on the present and live in the moment.
Slowly, the fear, shame, and anger that are connected to the memory slowly fade. The powerful emotions you once felt, like anger and shame, lose their intensity. Your past no longer controls your future.
