Parenting is one of the most important jobs in the world. But, it’s also one that you probably aren’t prepared for. After all, parents receive little to no training before they are thrown in the deep end.
One minute your toddler is calm and content and the next they are throwing an epic tantrum in the grocery store, and you don’t know what to do. You feel exhausted, isolated or anxious as a parent. Maybe you feel like you are “getting it all wrong.” This is quite normal, especially when you compare yourself to the many parenting influencers online who seem to have perfect lives.
If the idea of stepping into a therapist’s office to get help for parenting issues leaves you with a sense of shame, you are not alone. However, this is one of the biggest hurdles to getting help. But, seeking out parenting therapy doesn’t mean you have failed. It means that you love your child and want the best for them.
A therapist is a trained guide who can help you navigate the demands of parenting. Unlike generic advice that you might get from well-meaning people, a therapist understands underlying patterns that might be causing parenting stress — things like inconsistent boundaries and communication breakdowns.
Parenting is demanding, but it can also be a chance for significant growth and healing. A parenting therapist won’t just offer tips on parenting, they will help strengthen the entire family system.
