You Deserve To Feel Good About Who You Are

Self-esteem isn’t just a buzzword. It’s the relationship you have with yourself—and the beacon you project in the world. It’s estimated that 85% of people struggle with low self-esteem at some point.

Why does self-esteem matter? Self-esteem shapes how you see yourself and how you move through life. High self-esteem is a cornerstone of mental health. It helps you build resiliency and cope with challenges. 

Low self-esteem robs you of your light, makes you feel like an imposter, and stops you from going after things you want and deserve. It can show up in many ways — as harsh self-criticism, doubt in your abilities, or a constant sense of not being enough. 

Self-esteem doesn’t exist in a vacuum. Self-esteem is formed by childhood experiences. Messages you received about your worth early in life still affect you today. Relationships and roles we find ourselves in during adulthood can either reinforce or disprove those messages.

Therapy provides a place to understand where these patterns come from and begin building your self-worth. In therapy, you can knock down one false belief at a time. It helps you retrain your mindset to one of self-acceptance and authenticity.

Why It Can Be Hard To Reach Out

Low self-esteem is hard to identify in ourselves. While we know that something is off, we can’t always place it. You may struggle with distinguishing the signs of low self-esteem from other mental health issues.

Many people believe they should “fix it” themselves or they fear that opening up will confirm their worst self-judgments. It’s common for people to minimize their pain and think that their problems aren’t serious enough to need therapy. Some people with low self-esteem don’t believe they are worthy of receiving help.

A Professional Approach To Self-Esteem Therapy

Princess Parker, LPC

Licensed Professional Counselor

My therapy style is highly empathetic and compassionate. I really want my clients to feel seen and heard when they meet with me. I want them to feel as if they matter, because they do! Most often, I use CBT, Solution-Focused and Person-Centered therapies. I want my clients to learn to see the strength they truly carry and learn to see their positives.

Clients have said that it felt good to have a space where they could share their feelings and feel someone cared without judgment. They felt more confident in themselves and their decision making skills. Some clients stopped blaming themselves for everything that has happened in their lives. If you would like to meet with me, please reach out!

How Therapy Can Help

Therapy helps to peel back all the layers that formed your low self-esteem. If you’re like many people with low self-esteem, you’ve developed intricate masking and coping habits. You may also struggle with isolation.

Therapy provides a space to discuss the thoughts and feelings you’ve never felt comfortable disclosing to friends and family. It’s important to say that therapy for low self-esteem doesn’t follow a one-size-fits-all model.

Many people with low self-esteem find that uncovering the origins of their negative self-perceptions helps. Additionally, recognizing triggers or patterns to reframe thought habits can be important. Challenging negative self-talk can help to interrupt self-destructive spirals.

Therapy also teaches you how to develop self-compassion. You don’t have to live with speaking words that tear you down. Self-compassion allows you to forgive yourself for past mistakes while giving yourself grace in the moment.

Many different modes of therapy can be used for low self-esteem. Traditional talk therapy and more somatic approaches can be used to process trauma and rewire patterns.

Therapeutic Approaches We Use

The most common approaches include:

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT): CBT is one of the most classic approaches for identifying and rewriting negative self-talk and criticism. Through CBT, you can learn to rethink beliefs that leave you feeling helpless or unworthy.
Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR): In studies, EMDR has been shown to be an effective treatment for low self-esteem. It helps you reprocess painful memories that have shaped negative self-perceptions and core beliefs.
Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT): ACT helps you feel difficult feelings or thoughts instead of pushing them down.
Compassion-Focused Therapy (CFT): In studies, CFT is effective for addressing self-criticism. Using mind-body awareness, CFT allows you to build a compassionate view of yourself.
Mindfulness-Based Therapy: These practices help you become more aware of self-criticism and treat yourself with more kindness and compassion.

Why Choose Deep Centered Mental Health

Talking about low self-esteem can feel uncomfortable when you’ve lived a life being told your thoughts and feelings don’t matter. At Deep Centered Mental Health, we provide a welcoming, compassionate space where you can finally be yourself.

Low self-esteem can be caused by many life experiences. That’s why working with therapists who truly understand your story is important. At Deep Centered Mental Health, our therapists are committed to helping you overcome the self-criticism and negative self-talk holding you back.

Your therapy path will be 100% tailored based on your comfort level. In addition, your therapist will help you create customized goals based on how low self-esteem affects you. When you meet with one of our therapists, you won’t be judged. You’ll be understood.  We’ll help you make lasting changes so you can feel more connected and confident in every part of your life. 

We’re committed to making therapy accessible to all. It shouldn’t be a struggle just to find someone to talk with. That’s why we offer 100% virtual appointments with time flexibility for busy schedules.

Our therapists understand the toll low self-esteem takes. We’re here to help you quiet negative internal chatter to claim the life that’s waiting for you. Let us help you rewrite the script on your self-worth with therapy that makes a difference. 

We are ready when you are

Convenient locations + telehealth

Journeys to Healing

Real experiences shared by patients who turned therapy into transformation.

As a 1st time therapy patient, I cannot recommend them enough. I've been given insight, book recommendations, and challenging questions to examine what I hope to work on in therapy.

I can't say enough about Rachel. She is an awesome counselor and I'm so glad that Alex, my 10-year-old has sessions with her. He looks forward to his sessions, especially the in-person ones.

Working with Jordan has been a game changer in my mental health journey. I am grateful for the space she holds for me to process freely and experience my emotions in a meaningful way.

Understanding the Process

Learn more about what to expect as you take the next step in your journey.

How do I know if I might struggle with low self-esteem?

People who have low self-esteem or self-worth often have a negative view of themselves and their abilities, and may struggle with confidence, happiness, and relationships.

What causes low self-esteem?

Low self-worth and self-esteem can be the result of many different things including mistreatment by others, bullying and surviving abuse, negative self-talk, trauma, and lack of positive support systems.

How does therapy help with low self-esteem?

Some of the benefits of therapy for self-esteem and self-worth are:

  • Increased self-acceptance and self-compassion
  • Reduced self-criticism and perfectionism
  • Enhanced self-confidence and assertiveness
  • Improved mood and well-being
  • Reduced stress and anxiety
  • Better communication and interpersonal skills
  • Greater satisfaction and fulfillment in life

How long does it take to feel better?

Everyone’s journey is different. Some people notice improvements within a few weeks of therapy, while for others it may take longer. Consistency and support make a big difference.

Is it normal to need help for low self-esteem?

Yes. If you are struggling with low self-esteem or self-worth, you are not alone. Many people feel this way, but not everyone seeks help. Therapy can be a helpful way to overcome it and discover your true potential.

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