We work with children and families to make mealtimes less stressful and more nourishing.

Feeding struggles can be stressful for the whole family. They create complicated health and household dynamics. For parents, pediatric feeding disorders create worry and a need for constant monitoring. For the child or young adult with a feeding disorder, the constant emphasis on food intake can be exhausting.

Meals that should feel simple can turn into a daily source of worry and conflict. Some kids avoid certain foods or textures. Other kids eat very little or struggle to gain weight. Parents can feel frustrated or even guilty sometimes that they’re doing something wrong.

Feeding disorders impact all aspects of life. They can make friendships and socializing difficult. Activities like parties and social events come with extra baggage. Eating in a way that’s different from same-age peers is isolating. In some cases, feeding disorders are accompanied by other developmental issues that need to be managed.

Care from a qualified doctor is necessary for feeding disorders. However, treatment for physical nourishment is just one piece of the puzzle. Therapy can help families cope with the unique psychological challenges of feeding disorders. 

Therapy is also a tool for creating positive mealtime experiences and views of food. Positive experiences and thoughts can be vital for following prescribed feeding regimens. Positive thoughts and experiences around food can make a huge difference in long-term progress. When mealtimes feel calm and safe, children are more open to sticking with their feeding plans and trying new foods.

Why It Can Be Hard To Reach Out

Many parents wonder if feeding struggles are “just a phase.” It’s hard to accept that your child doesn’t eat at an age-appropriate level. Parents fear judgment. They also dread unsolicited advice about how to make their child comply.

Perhaps you have tried to get help from your child’s pediatrician or another professional and have been dismissed. But there is help available. Getting help from a therapist or psychiatrist who understands this issue can make a huge difference in your child’s life, as well as your own.

A Professional Approach To Feeding Disorder Therapy

Kathleen Fahrner, Ph.D

Licensed Clinical Psychologist

When I begin working with parents of children with feeding disorders, I initially support their heroic efforts to feed their children. I understand their exhaustion and frustration in not being able to do something as fundamental as feeding their child. But a feeding disorder is not the fault of a parent, they have often done their very best. I find parents to be so grateful to talk to someone who understands feeding issues and can be of help to their child.

My best advice to parents who are struggling to feed their child for whatever reason is to get the support of a professional trained in working with feeding challenges. Interventions may range from some simple techniques for the parent to try at home to more intensive feeding therapy for their child. I would also advise parents of children with feeding disorders to step back a bit and look at the broader aspects of the relationship with their child. Feeding issues can easily become all-consuming and often affects the entire family’s functioning. Ultimately, the end goal in the treatment of a feeding disorder is to build or restore developmentally typical eating behavior. The side effect of this goal tends to be a happier and more engaged family unit.

How Therapy Can Help

Parents have many different reasons for why they choose therapy. In some cases, it’s to help a family cope and thrive in the midst of struggle. In others, therapy is about bringing positive eating behaviors to your household.

Therapy for feeding struggles opens up the conversation. It offers a space to explore the complex feelings in your family. 

Therapy helps parents of kids with feeding disorders provide support. You can learn effective techniques for modeling with compassion.

If eating or certain foods are associated with fears, therapy can be used to address aversions. Each therapy path is tailored based on the age and behaviors of a child.

There’s no one-size-fits-all therapy approach for feeding disorders. Therapists are sensitive to the fact that many underlying factors can be in play.

Therapeutic Approaches We Use

Depending on the situation, therapy may include:

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT): CBT provides empowerment by addressing how thoughts and feelings contribute to views of foods.
Play Therapy: Play therapy helps kids express fear, anxiety, and other emotions around food.
Family-Based Treatment (FBT): A therapist guides parents in displaying empathy while enforcing rules or guidelines about eating. Research shows that family-centered treatment approaches work best for pediatric feeding disorders and improve the quality of life for children and their families.
Parent Coaching: Helps parents learn skills to support their child. This therapy can help parents learn how to reduce mealtime stress and manage emotional reactions.
Sequential Oral Sensory (SOS): Helps children build trust with food at their own pace.

Why Choose Deep Centered Mental Health

A sensitive family issue like this requires a competent, compassionate professional. Feeding disorders create emotional struggles for parents and family. You may feel like bonding is harder for you because you’re always “policing” food intake.

It’s normal for parents to feel like parenting is harder when a child has a feeding disorder.  They may also blame themselves. At Deep Centered Mental Health, we’re aware of the stigmas parents face. We’re here to help you find tools for brighter, more empowered parenting.

Our therapists can collaborate with your child’s medical care plan. We provide parents with many practical tools and exercises that complement other treatments your child may be receiving. 

Choosing the right therapist for your family is important. Your child deserves to feel safe and understood. You deserve useful, personalized tools for thriving in the midst of struggles. Our therapists are trained in a wide range of behavioral and exposure therapies that dovetail with medically supervised feeding disorder treatment.

Deep Centered Mental Health knows that parents of children with feeding disorders invest lots of time in medical appointments and home feeding rituals. That’s why we offer flexible virtual therapy options for feeding disorders. That means one less car ride and waiting room for your family. Our science-based, holistic therapy paths are here for you and your child. 

We are ready when you are

Convenient locations + telehealth

Journeys to Healing

Real experiences shared by patients who turned therapy into transformation.

From start to finish their admin process is amazing and excellent customer service. Also, they provide an array of diverse therapists, specialized in their field, and providing more choices for clients seeking therapeutic assistance.

Melody has been amazing and extremely helpful with helping me work on my childhood trauma with EMDR. She has been very flexible and patient- allowing me to go at my own pace with everything. 20/5 stars! So very grateful I found her.

I need a place to unload and Deep Centered has provided a safe place and provided tools without the usual administrative headaches that accompany the patient experience.

Understanding the Process

Learn more about what to expect as you take the next step in your journey.

How do I know if my child needs feeding disorder therapy?

If your child consistently refuses certain foods, struggles with textures, eats a very limited variety, or experiences stress around meals, therapy may help.

How can a psychologist help with feeding disorders?

Psychologists help identify and address the emotional and behavioral patterns contributing to feeding struggles. We work with both the child and caregiver to develop a supportive plan for change.

Is a feeding disorder the same as an eating disorder?

No. Feeding disorders often develop in early childhood and are typically related to sensory, behavioral, or medical issues. Eating disorders, such as anorexia or bulimia, involve complex psychological factors and typically affect older children, teens, or adults.

Can feeding therapy be done virtually?

In many cases, yes. Telehealth sessions are available and can be helpful for caregiver coaching and structured home support.

What advice do you have for parents of children with feeding disorders?

Be patient and stay consistent. Mealtime struggles can be frustrating, but your support and calm presence are powerful tools. Avoid power struggles, offer foods without pressure, and trust that progress is possible with the right support.

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